Biography
The Kid
I
was born in May of 1964 in a small clinic in my hometown
of Charlton Heights, West Virginia. Shortly after, I'm
told, they stopped delivering babies there. The only
memory I have of the clinic as a kid, was seeing the
hollowed-out building and foundation. I'm not sure who
condemned it or when, but I'm pretty sure it was
connected to my being born!
I was a "Leave it to Beaver" kind of kid;
hardly ever got in trouble, and when I did, I was the
first to tell my parents and ask for punishment. Don't
ask me WHY, but maybe being the last of six kids taught
me something by observing the mistakes of my older
siblings. Needless to say, my parents had a pretty easy
time with me - but... I still earned and received
spankings like all the rest!
I
can't say I was a whiz in school, I was pretty
uninterested and unmotivated in my studies, actually.
Early on, however, I showed a knack for being very
mechanically inclined. I took everything apart and
learned how to make things work. There were times I got
chances to prove myself by fixing things around the
house - from alarm clocks to the clothes dryer. Many
years later, I received a patent on one of my invention
designs... didn't make a DIME from it... but I HAVE A
PATENT!
I was also a quiet kid, too. One of my
parent's friends once said, "Todd doesn't say much, but
when he does - it's worth listening to."
Christ became important to me at an early
age. When I learned that Jesus loved us and died to save
us from sins I began passing out gospel tracks to
everyone at Falls View Elementary School - friends and
teachers! It wasn't until a few weeks later while I was
on the playground that the Holy Spirit drew me
personally to Christ... It hit me that *I* had never
asked Christ to save *ME* - even though I was telling
everyone else! :) Right there, by the metal railing... I
trusted Christ as my Savior!
Teen Days (daze)
I
began attending Christian schools around 7th grade - by
choice. I did witness to my friends in public school,
but it was getting harder and harder to be around an
atmosphere that was so... well, ungodly (and THIS was in
the 70's). Little did I realize that "Christian Schools"
were also filled with kids that had little or no desire
to please God... so not much changed there, really. But
it WAS better to be taught by those who knew Christ AND
could share their faith freely in the classroom!
I began teaching children's church when I
was in elementary school, but my involvement really took
off as a teen. I volunteered for everything from Sunday
School, Vacation Bible School, and Bible Camp Counselor.
As I grew older, I always wondered what God wanted me to
do in life... turns out I was doing it all along! God
is good!
In high school I participated in soccer,
won awards in drama, music and Christian Leadership. I
was elected as Homecoming King my senior year... go
figure! I was HARDLY what you would call "popular"!
About this time, I started praying that
God would break my heart. I can't remember WHY, exactly.
It might have come from a talk from a youth pastor, or
from just thinking - I had it so good in life. Good
Christian parents, years in church and attending a
Christian school - and nothing bad really touched me. I
guess I worried that I was too secluded from what most
people experience. I don't mean secluded from public
school - I mean from the pain sin brings to our everyday
lives... How was I going to be sympathetic and minister
to a hurting world, if I hadn't experienced and
understood real problems or pain? Since then, God has
answered that prayer... many times over! Those were/are
trying times, but I never regret that prayer.
College Years
I
attended Appalachian Bible College in West Virginia then
Moody Bible Institute in Chicago. I loved both of them.
While in college at ABC, I struggled with my faith.
While I maintained exterior appearances, I very nearly
threw away my faith in my heart. Maybe this happens for
many who trust Christ as Savior very young. At any rate,
God is patient, and allowed me time to question my faith
and to reassemble it piece by piece. Afterward, my faith
became stronger than ever. God is good, I'm not -
and his mercy and grace are real and needed!
While at Moody my militant conservative
attitudes were challenged! I learned that legalism is
legalism - whether during Christ's time - or today. My
personal preferences or those of the leadership of my
church (however well-meaning) can NOT supersede God's
Word. He is the final authority - not me! Ahhh sweet
freedom in Christ. I am still rather conservative
personally; but I now recognize the difference between
personal standards and the Gospel of Christ.
Personal Tragedy
And it was at Moody where I met and soon
married a beautiful, intelligent, funny, talented young
lady. However, she was fighting demons I wasn't fully
aware of. Four months later - she left and divorced me.
It was not my will - and I got angry with God, but I had
to recognize that the situation was life threatening -
and it was perhaps God's permitted will. I knew she had
severe family problems, but she was showing signs of
growing beyond those. Unfortunately, she began to try to
create an abusive atmosphere in our home. She became
physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive. She
occasionally ran away, threw away her wedding ring, and
even threatened my life. At one point she took a
baseball bat to our computer when I was out of the
house. I never would have left her - I feel very
strongly about marriage and divorce. But God allowed
her to leave me and I've not heard from her since. It's
been over 10 years... I'm praying that God will open up a
new relationship for me - if it is in His will.
...and Today
I've
lived and had jobs in Chicago, Illinois and Columbus,
Ohio - but I always seem to find my way back to "almost
heaven", West Virginia!
I always said I wanted to do a little of
everything - career-wise. And I've not been
disappointed. I've worked in sales, computers, newspaper
work, graphic design, high-school teacher, and more!
God is good!
My last job was the Graphic Designer for
a local print house - and I loved it! Currently,
I'm a Help Desk Specialist for the National HUD offices. I'm also still
designing websites on the side, as well as occasional digital
graphic design for a friend of mine who runs a very
successful sign business. I'm content to be single and
taking care of my parents as they get older if that
is God's will for me. But I am always eager to make new
friends
And, Hey! ...you
never know!